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by Dr. Ellen F. Wachtel

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ISBN: 0312254709
Author: Dr. Ellen F. Wachtel
Language: English
Publisher: St. Martin's Griffin; First edition (February 14, 2000)
Pages: 224
Category: Relationships
Subcategory: Self-Help
Rating: 4.3
Votes: 832
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Ellen Wachten is special in the field of family therapy, and this book shows her at her best. Without a doubt, We Love Each Other But saved my marriage of 6 years

Ellen Wachten is special in the field of family therapy, and this book shows her at her best. Without a doubt, We Love Each Other But saved my marriage of 6 years. I was embarrassed to look at the chapter headings and realize how typical I was, having allowed my marriage to grow weeds through neglect: We Love Each Other But. Every Decision is a Tug-of-War We Love Each Other But. We Get into Really Bad Arguments We Love Each Other But. We Don't Have Much of a Sex Life We Love Each Other But.

Excellent, practical, very insightful book for couples looking to strengthen their relationships.

Dr offers simple, practical tips that will help you restore and strengthen a relationship that has gone off track. It lays out the nuts and bolts of building relationships so they continue to be gratifying over the long haul. Excellent, practical, very insightful book for couples looking to strengthen their relationships.

215 pages ; 22 cm. "We Love Each Other, But. offers simple, practical tips that will help you restore and strengthen a relationship that has gone off track. Dr. Ellen Wachtel shows how, even when you feel like giving up on a relationship or marriage, you can recapture why you fell in love in the first place.

It was probably the best relationship book (of very few) that I have ever read is widely known in the field of marriage and family therapy.

Ellen Wachtel shows how, even when you feel like giving up on a relationship or marriage, you can recapture why you fell in love in the first place. In fact, she shows you and your partner how you can stay interested in each other for the rest of your lives. It was probably the best relationship book (of very few) that I have ever read. It's honest and actually. is widely known in the field of marriage and family therapy. in psychology and a law degree from Harvard Law School.

We Love Each Other, Bu. ffers simple, practical tips that will help you restore and strengthen a relationship that has gone off track. It lays out the nuts and bolts of building relationships so they continue to be gratifying over the long haul

We Love Each Other, Bu.

Introduction We thought we loved each other. Could it have been a mistake? Some Common Concerns. wo summers ago my husband, Paul, and I found ourselves becoming friendly with a couple who, like us, were spending a week on Cape Cod in Massachusetts. After several mellow dinners together we drifted into a conversation about our marriages. This book will describe these simple, practical tips that hundreds of couples have found so useful. I have written it for all those-young and old, first-time marriage partners or repeaters (so to speak)-who question whether relationships can really thrive over long stretches of time. We thought we loved each other.

Simple Secrets to Strengthen Your Relationship and Make Love Last. Ellen Wachten is special in the field of family therapy, and this book shows her at her best. Golden Guides from St. Martin's Press. Chapter 1 Four Basic Truths About What Makes Love Last It was a real question. He really wanted to know. She is a highly skilled professional, but more than being smart, she is wise. Best of all, she meets her readers as she does her clients, with true personal openness and candor.

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We Love Each Other, But...offers simple, practical tips that will help you restore and strengthen a relationship that has gone off track. It lays out the nuts and bolts of building relationships so they continue to be gratifying over the long haul. Dr. Ellen Wachtel shows how, even when you feel like giving up on a relationship or marriage, you can recapture why you fell in love in the first place. Dr. Wachtel promises that there is more and suggests simple ways to keep vitality in relationships. In fact, she shows you and your partner how you can stay interested in each other for the rest of your lives.

Comments:

Hellmaster
If there were six stars available, I'd give them to this book. Without a doubt, We Love Each Other But saved my marriage of 6 years. I was embarrassed to look at the chapter headings and realize how typical I was, having allowed my marriage to grow weeds through neglect:
* We Love Each Other But ... Every Decision is a Tug-of-War
* We Love Each Other But ... We Get into Really Bad Arguments
* We Love Each Other But ... We Don't Have Much of a Sex Life
* We Love Each Other But ... But I Have a Hard Time Dealing with my Partner's Emotional Hang-ups
* We Used to Love Each Other But ... Now I'm Not So Sure
* We Love Each Other But ... Life with Children Isn't Easy
* We Love Each Other But ... Is This It?

The author's style is easy-to-read, and she gives terse usable relationship rules that my husband and I have adopted in our day-to-day reactions. We went from discussing divorce to being the strongest couple we've ever been, and look forward to many more happy decades together.

For instance, Dr. Wachtel's advice has turned our frequent explosive arguments into productive discussions. We now walk away from the conversation when either one of us gets emotional or defensive, returning to it after 10 minutes or an hour. We know not to get upset when someone calls a time out. We focus on understanding the other's perspective instead of just getting our own across. We touch more often, and for the first time in a long time, I know my husband still loves me, and he knows I still love him.

I believe that if we'd read this book earlier, and been open to Dr. Wachtel's ideas, we would have never reached the crisis point we came to. I've since bought 4 additional copies of this book (my husband and I each have one) to give as wedding gifts. If you're in a relationship, or think you may be in one some day, give this book a glance. The few hours it takes to read are well worth it.

The fact that Dr. Wachtel uses both same-sex and heterosexual couples in her examples is just icing on the cake.
Tiainar
Very easy to read book with lots of practical advice. The book will echo every day and improve your relationship right away. Worth rereading every anniversary!

Good enough to strengthen even the strongest marriages and relationships!

Excellent gift for newlyweds -- they will pull it off their shelf one day when they need it.
Musical Aura Island
I liked just about every aspect of this book! I have a ton of information to take into my relationship. Before the book, I was getting fed up with the way things were going. Now, things are great and seem to just keep getting better!
I recommend this book to anyone wanting to improve intimacy in their relationship, add value, meaning, and learn to enjoy each other as you once did!
Yla
Very realistic examination of challenges in a relationship. Provides good insight by looking at issues from the perspectives of both sides. It does not provide magic bullet for all your situations, but it is the principles and skills you learn that counts.
Monn
Yes, I have all the stereotypes that are attached to my profession...critical, type A personality, sometimes ridiculously high standards, structured, can obsess over a situation/concern, loyal, and extremely limited with ways to use my time. When I discovered that my marriage was suffering because I just "couldn't find the time" to be a superwoman in bed..and beyond. After looking at my husbands frustration, and hearing him say one time too often.."I've become immune to the lack of sex" "can't miss whatI don't get.." I became concerned. I guess I thought that he SHOULD be attracted to me, even if we don't have sex as often as he wants. (Heck) I think 3 to 4 times a week is OUTRAGEOUS. It was great for dating, but who has the time anymore.

BUT....then I read this book. It is GREAT!!! I went on line after I identified that the real problem could actually be me, and ordered over 20...yes 20.. books on love, sex, and marriage. I set out to FIX this problem. Well This book is giving me the foundation from which to build. The chapter on your "We don't have too much Sex life" was excellent. To follow up "Dealing With..Emotional Hang-ups," helped me as well. I must acknowledge that some of those hang-ups came about due to the lack of sex. To my female peers, I am sure that you will agree that men are so much more pleasant after you've made love. While reading I would run to my husband and say..."hey read this..let's get those tapes.." I discovered that the hard porn was okay, but it was too synthetic for me, and those women were dumb as an ox. Who actually comes in and says..."oh I want you to ... me" to an absolute stranger?
Plus Dr. Ellen Wachtel didn't speak to me as if I was a patient. I couldn't comfortably read a book that sounds like the author has not had sex themselves in over a decade. Some books analyzed it from a medical point of view. Who cares about how one's testosterone level may effect one's Sex drive. I just want to please my husband and thereby please myself. I took my book everywhere! So, not to run on..which is another trait (smile) I just want to say---DO IT!! BUY THIS BOOK, and try out some of the suggestions Dr. Ellen Wachtel makes.
SIDEBAR: please overlook the typos, I am just so excited about the book, I just finished it--I wanted to scribble off a note to share this discovery.
Lli
It is easy to relate to the things discussed in this book and it has a lot of good advice, sometimes it is too broad. I want to read it over and over becasue everyone has problems and it is the simple things we forget to do that help and this book reminds us of that

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